Ah, that's what I get for speedreading! Thanks for taking me to task, dong20. I need that from time to time. I missed that part, but I think the bulk of my post was accurate.

A guy I've known for years was basically a good guy, but a jerk in how he treated women.

At one time, he had 4 girlfriends (none knew about the others) and was also seeing a married woman. He had the nerve to be jealous of that woman's husband, and he resented any time she spent with him. I knew both of them, too. They (the married couple) were a perfect match in every way, except libido. He was a once-a-month kind of guy, and she was a twice-a-day kind of gal.