Dear Babydickk
I'm the same size as you are. And I have great sex.

Sure, the big are lucky, wish I was mammoth (10X7, or something like that) but that's just a fantasy. I live with reality.
But, if you want to know what woman really want in a guy I suggest you read TattooedMamaMeg's blog on her ideal guy. It should be compulsary reading for all men:
http://www.lpsg.org/blogs/tattooedmamameg/