I have a prior committment every first Saturday of the month, but I'd be willing to cancel it and come to NY on Jan 5th.

This will be a big step for me, guys, and I'll probably be anxious. But I need to do something out of my comfort zone and shake-up the safety net a little bit.

I haven't been to NY for years, but I presume that the meeting place will be in Manhattan-- midtown or the Village-- and a "neutral" environment where everyone can feel comfortable. It shouldn't be a gay club nor a straight sports bar either.