LOL, njqt!!!

Yeah, I guess I have incredibly high standards too. I want a man who isn't addicted to work, sex, substances, alcohol, food, or anything. I want a man who isn't emotionally unavailable, emotionally abusive, physically abusive, or entirely narcissistic.

I prefer the gainfully employed and the grounded guy who can support himself. I prefer he has a heartbeat and can draw breath.

Wow, you and I are way too picky and we are both looking too hard! LOL!

Yeah, I also get annoyed with happily partnered people (friends) who give me advice on how I will find (or should find) true love. It's rarely helpful and rarely correct for my situation. And often later on, these happily partnered people will come crying to me when their relationships turn sour and ask ME for advice and support. LOL!

Well, I just have to say I'm in a period of reprise. I don't care whether or not I have a partner, ever. And I'm honestly not bitter about it. I was bitter only a month ago. Now I've accepted that it's not that big a deal and that I'm happy with my life the way it is. If someone comes along to share it on another level other than friends, then it's a bonus. If not, well, I know how to make myself happy.