Thread: Bad Break Ups Often Lead to Depression and Stalkers
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Old 11-23-2007   #22 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by NCbear View Post
You sound like me. In grad school, a similar type of woman "selected" me as her "best friend." After strenuous attempts to decline the "honor," I gave up and let her spend time with me. For about two years, off and on. Yes, I was weak. I eventually had to tell her the truth--that I'd always thought she was crazy, from day one--before she became offended and broke the "friendship" off with me. NCbear (who's damned glad he found a way to get rid of her)


lucky you. when I told this 'friend' she was crazy that just set her off even more sending long emails complaining about my insensitive choice of words. I guess I am not very good at making or choosing friends maybe because I am always so outspoken about being gay (even tho' I never go to gay clubs) that I always just attract these girls who want someone sensitive with absolutely no chance of there ever being anything sexual ....

anyway after several years of 'friendship' in which all I did was give give give listen listen listen help help help and after also having the added complications of her parents and her alcoholic boyfriend I finally grew enough balls to cut her off ... somebody should have given me lessons in friendship but at least I did learn a lot from that nightmare