Generally, I would not mess with a married person, or even someone with a steady. But I'm human, too. I've had my eye on a local guy since 1998. He is now a freight sales rep who handles our company's freight. He lives nearby and sees me washing the car or working on my garden almost every weekend. He'll honk and yell hi as he drives by. Sometimes he'll take his little son for a walk and just stop by. Our paths cross all the time. He's hot and I wish I could spot his VPL, but he keeps it well hidden in snug underwear. I would not hesitate in the least if the situation ever came up. It would be all about him. He wouldn't need to do anything for me other than lay there and relax!