Hi there! I can't speak for older men in general, but am in a relationship with a man older than me, and we are blissfully happy together.

We don't regret taking the chance and getting together. We plan to have many more happy years, but even what we've had so far would make it all worthwhile.

Our situation is helped, though, by the fact that my Master is very young at heart and in excellent physical health. He's not overweight, and has taken good care of his body for years. So, in terms of "real age," I think he may actually be much younger than his chronological age.

Anyway, I wish you the best outcome for you and this particular person. If you don't belong together (for the reasons earlier posters have mentioned), then that's okay. But if you do, don't let the age difference get in your way. Just my opinion.