Men Defensive About Gay Comments?

Bisexuals have always been not loved, in some folks minds you are either GAY or STRAIGHT. period...

So the bi guy is REALLY a closet case who can't admit he is REALLY gay andthis is threatening (how I don't know) (the gays view)

OR the bi guy is straight guy how fucks around with guys or...

its endless.

personally I like the term 'sexual'.

2 points:

1) If he's that touchy, there's a reason. Probably one that is hard for him to admit, but a reason nonetheless. If he's prepared to finish something on that basis, you're better off without.

2) You are beautiful and have outstanding breasts. Sorry, just needed to say it!

Hope at least one of these was helpful...

The problem is that a lot of "straight" men actively seek out sexual activity for pleasure with other men yet still consider themselves to be "straight". That's not straight, that's being either bisexual or gay. It's sort of funny to see how some of these guys will bend over backwards to explain how letting a guy suck their cock for fun is "straight" but at the same time we shouldn't label human sexuality.

QFT! IMO, If he's that touchy about you asking questions then he is probably a closet gay and not really bi.

Also, it has been my experience that the bi men on this site come here looking for men, not women. It is after all a large penis site, not a large pussy site.

I've read somewhere, and I'll look for the study, that most men honestly identify themselves as straight OR gay.
Women , most often straight AND gay or, bi.

Indeed! A large pussy site would be just awful though!

It doesn't bother me any, just tonight some girl "accused" me of being in love with some (yes rather hot) male musician but instead of getting defensive and angry I just playfully went along with it, making her really wonder. ;)








And yes, I got a number and a future date :)

Chatting? Since you don't indicate if there is any sexual content to the chatting I have composed the following response on the basis that it was merely chatter without sexual content.

If he becomes defensive there may be reasons. What those reasons are may be known only to him; however, I must ask a question here: Why is the woman questioning his sexuality if he happens to be chatting with gay men? Is he supposed to only chat with straight men or with women? Maybe he is reacting more from the woman trying to regulate his life. Sometimes chatting is just chatting and there's nothing untoward about it.

And even camming, believe it or not.

I've had straight guys cam for me (no actually, more like TO me or AT me). They are very different to gay or bi men. They are not interested in seeing my cock (I don't have a cam and they're happy with one-way). They get off on my admiration of their penis rather than dirty talk or gay sexual fantasising. Any chat about sexual activity is about them and their woman, and they talk about their wife or g/f in an open but respectful way. They are not at all interested in what I get up to with my partners.

I don't fully understand what they get out of it. I sometimes think they'd be happier showing to another straight man, if they could find one that was interested. But it seems that I affirm them, both as a sexually attractive being and as a straight man. Weirdly, I suspect I'm enhancing their heterosexual performance too. There may be some ladies out there who owe me a favour, lol!

Huh, humans. Wierd, eh?

He's a closet gay, you can bet your sweet arse.

Because your a hottie.

Wouldn't bother me either. I love my own gender ... I just don't make love to my own gender.