thank you for sharing. i'm sure you will be able to through this. it sounds to me as if you simply had some performance anxiety, and that isn't something to be embarrassed about. I'm no expert, so take my advice with a grain of salt, but keep at it and make sure you are keeping sex playful, romantic, hot-and-heavy, or however you like it. Sex isn't always about sex, its about the moment you're in with the other person. And when the moment is right, you'll be ready, i'm sure.