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Old 11-19-2007   #7 (permalink)
njqt466
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Originally Posted by Sixofspades View Post
I've had oral sex with two girls of different ethnicities, but no long term relationships. Are your oral skills that bad? Race isn't an issue for me. I think the only time it would be is in terms of being so totally different with regards to background/upbringing/mentality that it just couldn't work out. That's a possibility, but I suppose those differences could exist between two people of the same race too. Very true. I prefer to have relationships with men of a similar moral/ethical and socio-economic background. I will say though, I chatted briefly with a black girl in the past, and I got the 'hell no, you're white?' reaction. No offense, but do you think it's cause you are in New England, specifically Boston. That city does have a strong history of racism. Personally, I prefer dating white men and lived in Leominster, MA for 4 years. I didn't have a date the entire time. as it was quite clear no one in that area was about to cross the color line. I do understand that sort of thing is an exception rather than a rule, and it hasn't put me off other races, but it has made me doubt my own attractiveness to them. Don't doubt your attractiveness! You are definetely a hottie! It's things like that which have made me just slightly hesitant to approach a woman who isn't white. So it's not for lack of wanting, it's just a kind of 'is this okay to do?' feeling.
IMO it is more than okay to do.