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Originally Posted by Bette  What seduction attempts were successful vs unsuccessful? In each case, what were the determining factors, meaning...WHY were you lured in some cases vs not in the others? What worked for you/what didn't work for you? |
The successful cases were all surprises. I wasn't expecting to be seduced and therefore wasn't laboring under any pre-conceived expectations. ie I was just being myself and having a good time when a very pleasant surprise came my way.
The unsuccessful cases were clearly
desperation or
manipulation directed at me, the target-of-opportunity that happened to be nearby. Very impersonal and very phony. Its easy to recognizes these types of advances and avoid them if need be.