11-19-2007
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Originally Posted by naughty  I dont think it is that simple. He represents what she is looking for. She hears him and doesnt here him when he tells her he is gay. He may be gay but he is still providing all the things she is looking for in a relationship (minus sex) . She doesnt have to be a woman who habitually hangs out with gay men. People do the same thing with someone who has told them they just want to be friends. | Maybe there is something wrong with how my brain works inconjunction with my heart. Either that or I must be the weirdest woman on the planet.  On the rare instance when I have expressed a romantic interest in a gay man. When he told me he was gay, I was able to shut off those romantic feelings. In my mind, falling for a gay guy is as pleasant and useful as spitting into the wind. In the instance of a straight man telling me let's just be friends. I usually just bail as it is far too painful to be his friend when he is dating other women who aren't anywhere near as good for him as I would be. |
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