All my break ups have been face to face but it was always me doing the breaking up so I don't know how it would have gone if it was the men doing it, sometimes I think they can't stand to see the pain they know its going to cause. That's not excusing them of course, you start a relationship you have certain moral obligations, to end it properly is one of them.

If someone's been dumped by text, email, phone I can quite understand them wanting a face to face confrontation with the person who dumped them, we need to know why, and I think some people might say 'he/she's stalking me' if the woman/man is merely trying to contact them to find out why.