Thread: Bad Break Ups Often Lead to Depression and Stalkers
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Old 11-19-2007   #3 (permalink)
njqt466
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Originally Posted by SpoiledPrincess View Post
However, I don't agree with all of what you said, while I certainly agree that bad breaks ups damage self esteem and can lead to depression I don't think there's much link with stalking, a lot of times the stalker wasn't having anything that would qualify as a relationship except in their own mind, they can base their stalking on something as trivial as a few text messages.

Good point. I think the stalker activity happens in shorter relationships, say 3 months and under. I hate to admit it but it seems that women are doing much of the physical stalking i.e. following the guy around town, checking on him to see if he's at work and stupid crap like that, checking the messages on his home phone or email because she has the password.