Thanks, Ryan. No one questioned my percentage. I have simply found myself recently on the road to what could be my second marriage. Part of me looks forward to being in that wonderful circumstance again, and part of me wants to be sure I've taken care of all of my lust for males first. In essence, LPSG is providing me with a personal sounding board so that I can sort it all out before I take the leap.

I will definitely tell her about my past and present activities. I told my first (now deceased) wife before we married, and it was the right thing to do. It did mean that she sometimes worried that I might hook up with some guy... or some woman... She thought for a while she might have twice as many possible rivals for my attention. Finally, she understood that I was hers and only hers. Had she lived I suspect we'd still be happily and monogomously married.

So, now I'm feeling familiar stirrings for another woman, and I still see a few men I find attractive. If the past is any indication, I will continue to appreciate seeing great looking guys, but I will also have no desire to break my marriage vows. Thus, I do hope to enjoy male friendships... regardless of how hung, handsome, or well muscled a guy is, but... quite honestly... with some hope that one (or two) of my thoughtful and intelligent guy friends can also be someone who inspires me in the gym and looks good on the beach.