What? There are way more gay or gay-leaning/gay-friendly openly bi guys here than straight guys. At the very least among active posters, if not in general.

That said, this isn't expressly a hookup site. Even if I suspect that's part of what Mark created it for six or seven years ago or whenever. But whether that was the original creator's ulterior motive or not, it was never mission #1 of the site and still is not. It's a support site. Most of the support offered here is in the form of sharing words or pictures online.

Not everyone here is all talk. If you're only hanging out in certain sections of the board, perhaps the majority of people you run into there are. and there are MANY fakers here, though most of them are pretending to be straight women. But there are some real people. I've met several of them. I'm open to meeting more. But in the five or six years I've been around I've only ever had sexual relations with a couple people I met here. So... one every 3 years?