It's not just this site. Go on adultfriendfinder or any of the zillion other sex-themed websites, and you'll find people who lie about themselves, people who are just looking for attention, and people who are just looking for a fantasy or cybersex.

I don't doubt that there are people who manage to hook up here, and on the myriad other casual sex/hookup sites. But it's been my experience that many people who are looking for sex on the internet do so because that's where they're comfortable - on the internet. Want real people? Get off the internet and out into the real world.