I moved 1,200 miles to be with someone I truly loved. Didn't work out, but I'd do it again. Luckily I found a man 20 blocks away so perfect it is like he was made for me and dropped on my doorstep.
I did once go from Miami to Paris to see a man. We were in love and had known each other since we were children. He was my first love. He had to move back to France and we kept in contact. About a year later, I realized that he was "the one" and I had let my being frightened of moving to Paris, having to finish school, my poor French and worrying about leaving my family stop me from going with him. Being a total lunatic, I literally charged a 2,000 ticket and took the next plane to Paris (hey, I was 20 and in love). He was in a relationship and I don't know what I expected, but he explained that I was "the one", but he loved the man he was seeing. I spent a few days, saw some family and went home. They are still together and I still speak to him from time to time.
If it is true love and he/she is the one you want...go to the ends of the Earth to be with them. |