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Originally Posted by SpitFireWheels  Just a little problem I've been coming across for a while now.
Recently I've started to let everyone know that i'm bi because basically I don't care anymore. People can't seem to grasp how I feel in general and it kind of bugs me. Like, people will say "Well being bi is just a road stop to gay town" or "Do you prefer men or women more? Honestly, for me it's not about the sex. It's basically my capacity to love a man or a woman []equally. I don't care if they have a penis or a vag, if I'm attracted to them i'll go for it without question. It just kind of bugs me how some people who i'm close to will actually say this to me and they can't really grasp the concept. I've also said that it lowers my chances of not having a date on friday night? (so far that idea has failed me miserably:P)
How about anyone else? Anyone else feel this way or am I just one whacked out kind of guy? Thoughts/comments appreciated!
ps..if if the typing on this is horrible I apologize. I tore a ligament in my wrist today so I'm trying to type with one hand:P |
Thanks so much for explaining your situation so well. I understand it because I'm similar to you. Maybe bisexuality isn't the best word to use to describe some of us because as you say it's not about the sex. It's about who you're attracted to and who you may love or fall in love with.
