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Originally Posted by KoolKat  Hey guys
i have a problem, and i duno if im just fucked in the head or if other people are like this too. Im scared about the prospect of having a sexual relationship. I have had a bf before but we never slept together, and i had a one weekend fool around with a guy when i was on holiday in sydney, but it was just wanking with each other and a blow job, but even that i felt really sick and nervous about when i started thiking about it after wards. And now i have met this really great guy and he is keen to have sex, but when i think about it outside of horniness i get that same sick nautious feeling and i dont want to do it, but i do want to do it, but i dont wanna like throw up on the guy or worse, but yeh, just thought i would ask your opinion, its not really young and hung but i am young and confused.
Hope that makes sense
Matt |
Hey Matt
I remember the lump in my throught the first time I got it on with a guy and it did seem very sickening to me at the time (not so much afterwards) but It was only because it was something I had never witnessed or induldged in b4, I got a similar feeling the first time I went to a gay bar. I think you are experienceing something similar maybe made a bit worse with your existing condition. But I do feel you will get over it quite quickly if you just work through it. Just like on a rollercoaster how you start to feel sick but you cant get off half way so you have to just get to the end of the ride.