I suspect that most well hung men are like me in that they just assume that most men who are not hung harbor some feelings of envy. Like a lot of things, there is a range. I base this perspective on a lifetime of experiences, including some very open conversations on the subject. What is important, I believe, is the ability to be proud of one’s gift without being such a jerk about it that you derive pleasure from making others feel badly about themselves. The same sentiment applies to any circumstance where someone is advantaged by a desirable attribute, condition, or possession, when others are not as fortunate. (This position assumes, of course, there is wide scale agreement that large penises are more desirable than smaller ones and that those who disagree are among a small minority.)
I have always been far more likely to experience admiration or curiosity from others rather than hostility. Sometimes, regrettably, I do sense other men experiencing feelings of disappointment or even embarrassment over the size of their own endowments – even when their penises are respectably average or even large-average – but I do not normally perceive this negative energy directed at me per se. I can think of a few exceptions, but not very many. |