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Old 10-30-2007   #31 (permalink)
jason_els
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Originally Posted by SereneBlue View Post
What I think the "Don't Look" Crowd are mistaking their advice for is "don't appear desperate and needy".
You won't appear desperate and needy if you aren't. I think a better way to rephrase that old saw is, "When you don't need someone is when you're most likely to find them." It doesn't mean you should relax on your porch and wait for Mr. or Ms. Right to appear on your stoop.