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Originally Posted by Thicckie  I think I have this complex where I feel like all of my close buds has a bigger dick than I do. It's really weird, not that it's ever come up in conversation or whatever but I see bulges at the gym working out, or playing sports etc. and it actually makes me feel bad. I wouldn't be considered "small" persay, I'm 6x5 but I'm nowhere near above average, and it makes me feel mediocre. Additionally, I'm a tall dude which a) makes for people to have steller expectations and b) makes it look even smaller on my tall frame. It's something I've battled with for some time now and really don't know what to do about it. I've never gotten any flagrant complaints from partners in the past but... it still just something that crosses my mind on almost a daily basis. What do I do? |
I translate - not so well
- this good sentence of Maxwell Maltz.. I think it center the full problem:
"The feeling of inferiority arises in us because of only one reason: we judge and measure (!) ourselves not on OUR 'model' or 'scale', but on the 'model' of someone else."
I'M the only one that can create my world and my values... and the people will follow these values, only because they are strong and consistent. If I want penis size being so important, it will be. If I think a 8 or 9 inch cock is indispensable to having good sex and to be a true man, it will be.
There are a few natural things that cannot be changed, but WE attach the value on these things. The emotions are all about the value of the things, and feelings are all about emotions. So, feelings about ourselves are all about the value we choose to attach to the things.