Yeah for me, the experience was a pleasant one but it's not that way for every guy, so I do tend to think we should tell young people about the pleasure they'll experience, so they're not afraid of pleasure. That seems like the most damaging result of NOT communicating about the *orgasm*...for boys, your dick will spasm, it'll feel great, you might even make liquid, etc. I'm not sure how to say it, or if it truly SHOULD be said. Just a general feeling I have. This aspect of it probably should not be taught in school, but talked about in the context of the family relationships that are most suited for that.

For me, it happened as a result of wet dreams....had those for a good few months before I realized I could touch it & make it happen on its own. Oh, the pleasure of it, it was amazing.