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Do you have any "real" friends from lpsg?

Most sociologists agree that men do not form very strong bonds with either men or women, that only women offer those strong feelings and support that adds up to a very sincere friend in times

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Old 09-06-2008   #1 (permalink)
hunghillbilly is offline
Do you have any "real" friends from lpsg?

Most sociologists agree that men do not form very strong bonds with either men or women, that only women offer those strong feelings and support that adds up to a very sincere friend in times of great need. So men have rather superficial friendships with other men usually based upon shared experiences of drinking, sports or sex. But with lpsg we do not have the opportunity to share experiences directly so the very casual friendship, the most abundant in men-men relationships do not readily exist. So have any of you formed a really meaningful bond with another lpsg buddy. I have I think with several with one very particular one that I communicate on several levels with, and this for more than three years. I think this a strong recommendation for lpsg, a chance to have a different kind of friendship with other guys, not based upon fishing or fucking sessions we have shared.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #2 (permalink)
pieterjoke is online now

Yup, one really good friend here!!!
 
Old 09-07-2008   #3 (permalink)
Gl3nn is offline

Yes, not for a very long time yet, but we connect on many levels.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #4 (permalink)
rbkwp is offline

Developing Friendships maybe .. an ongoing thing
Perhaps it will take a little longer with Cyber Friendships/all things taken into account
I have considered thruout life..if you can make a friend a Year .. your doing exceptionally well
I have NOT achieved this Goal
(probably one per 10 years/depending on what your expectations of a friendship is/and his/hers of course
enz


that only women offer those strong feelings and support that adds up to a very sincere friend in times of great need.

-with the above statement...i have ALWAYS believed my Women friends off far superior emotional down to earth support..than men,s flighty opinions'
 
Old 09-07-2008   #5 (permalink)
pieterjoke is online now

Quote:
Originally Posted by rbkwp View Post
Developing Friendships maybe .. an ongoing thing
Perhaps it will take a little longer with Cyber Friendships/all things taken into account
I have considered thruout life..if you can make a friend a Year .. your doing exceptionally well
I have NOT achieved this Goal
(probably one per 10 years/depending on what your expectations of a friendship is/and his/hers of course
enz

that only women offer those strong feelings and support that adds up to a very sincere friend in times of great need.

-with the above statement...i have ALWAYS believed my Women friends off far superior emotional down to earth support..than men,s flighty opinions'
True, most women are like that. But I met an awesome person here and he also supported me already in difficult times. And I'm very thankfull for that. He don't give flighty opinions, but real support. I hope this friendship last. He's a good mate with all the right intentions.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #6 (permalink)
rbkwp is offline

CHEERS Pieter

And I'm very thankfull for that. He don't give flighty opinions, but real support. I hope this friendship last. He's a good mate with all the right intentions.

I understand and respect what your saying very much
I think an older person LPSG (MAle) has a far differnet outlook re such to the Women ..obviously
in that his experiences in life often get him to view others opinions as rather..so..so'..and he could be prone to giving more 'off the cuff' opinions to fellow males..than a lady would
(evident by the comments i have seen Women give in some threads)
I have noticed several youngsters your age mentioning they have found a GOOD amount of Genuine support from older Memebrs LPSG (Male-i assume) and THAT is what the sites all about..no doubt.
WONDERFUL..it does serve its purpose
THANKS fr the site Rob-e
enz
(i especially like yr.. with all the right intentions...very heartening that)
 
Old 09-07-2008   #7 (permalink)
HaagenDazs is offline

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Originally Posted by hunghillbilly View Post
Most sociologists agree that men do not form very strong bonds with either men or women, that only women offer those strong feelings and support that adds up to a very sincere friend in times of great need. So men have rather superficial friendships with other men usually based upon shared experiences of drinking, sports or sex. But with lpsg we do not have the opportunity to share experiences directly so the very casual friendship, the most abundant in men-men relationships do not readily exist. So have any of you formed a really meaningful bond with another lpsg buddy. I have I think with several with one very particular one that I communicate on several levels with, and this for more than three years. I think this a strong recommendation for lpsg, a chance to have a different kind of friendship with other guys, not based upon fishing or fucking sessions we have shared.
I would wonder why those sociologists think it's good study to apply blanket generalizations like that.

I am a man who builds incredibly strong and complex relationships with people that have nothing to do with sex. And I am sure there are plenty like that. So they need to rethink that one.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #8 (permalink)
bmanor is offline

yeah one great friend. one really good friend.
but im not telling who
 
Old 09-07-2008   #9 (permalink)
nudeyorker is offline

Well I've been lucky enough to meet people from LPSG in person. I have met one person who falls into the friends for life category and others who have great potential.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #10 (permalink)
jeff black is online now

I've got a couple really good friends here. I've met some, would like to meet others.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #11 (permalink)
Hand_Solo is offline

Nope.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #12 (permalink)
thickhead is offline

yes i have a few
 
Old 09-07-2008   #13 (permalink)
njqt466 is offline

Yes, I do.
 
Old 09-07-2008   #14 (permalink)
8060 is offline

I would say that I have several people that I've met from that I would easily put into my friend category. I still haven't seen them in the actual flesh because they're all over the world, but our mentalities have certainly meshed in a very good way. Making 'real friends' isn't a complicated as people think. With me, it only takes being honest and genuine with someone and then you have to let go of the reigns and let them do their part.

So, to all of my friends on here (you know who you are), I love y'all, miss y'all, and I can't wait to talk y'all. Peace
 
Old 09-07-2008   #15 (permalink)
prince_will is offline

I've met alot of fantastic people here and consider them good friends, but i haven't really got anyone with who i am on a real deep and personal level with. I guess it happens or it doesn't.
 

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