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When i was dating, these were the only women i was looking for and for the longest time wondered this same phenomenon.

I think women should embrace sex and enjoy sex for all that they can. There's nothing more sexy than a "sexual" women. If a women wasn't sexual about herself then it would never work for me.

Luckily I did find one and she's wearing my ring.

I'll reserve one point though. Despite the sexual freedom that these women exhibit, i am a bit cautious because STDs creep the sh*t outta me. More partners = more chances to catch something, but it's the same road for men too, can't hate women any more than men when it comes to this.

Latins used to say: Mater semer certa est, Pater nunquam.

Men in the popular culture are allowed to fuck around, beuase they have to spread their genes.

Women aren't because men want to be sure they are really breeding their own kids.

Sexist double standard, but these are the roots.

I think it's because if it's just quick sex then it usually won't be very good for the woman. In your case, this women was told you were good (or nice or had a big one, etc.) beforehand. (post #7 from Jovial)

...Ever astute you are Jovial. Quite correct. The mystery woman was in fact fully informed ahead of time, so that did help. I should drag along friendly exes. every time I go out. lol.

I think it's because if it's just quick sex then it usually won't be very good for the woman. In your case, this women was told you were good (or nice or had a big one, etc.) beforehand. (WellHung83, post 39)

...For the record, I have no problem with women objectifying me. lol!

Lol, I got yr point and I fully agree with you.
I (and many other guys) wish if there were more women as the one you met! (Maestro, post #10)

...THANK YOU Maestro! lol. ME TOO.

In some circles a woman who has sex before marriage can expect to be the victim of an "honor killing" or expect to be a social pariah who never marrys because no decent man wants a slut or a woman who is seen as damaged goods for a wife. (njqt466)

...Thank you for that insight njqt, but I can't fathom a circumstance in which I would marry a woman who has NOT had sex. And I am a decent man.

Personally I see nothing wrong with a woman enjoying casual sexual encounters. (MrsSmallLovesBig, post #12)

....please have your friends get in touch with me. lol

What if there are just more women who just don't like casual sex and would rather have a relationship? It may be even more common in middle aged women trying to settle down and all that noise (Speculating.) Maybe, just maybe, they think some things are more important than sex.
(Pendlum, post #14)

....Yes. This could be the case and I am fully amenable to the prospect of an excellent relationship.

I'll reserve one point though. Despite the sexual freedom that these women exhibit, i am a bit cautious because STDs creep the sh*t outta me. More partners = more chances to catch something, but it's the same road for men too, can't hate women any more than men when it comes to this. (marriedasian, post #16)

....Excellent point. STDS creep me out as well. I have always been very careful and have never had one.

SO, very good points all and thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Plenty of women engage in sex based on a moment's desire--you just may not hear about it, though.

I know many women, including myself, who have gone with the moment or were into sport fucking. If anything, age group or generation, mindset, along with location, major metropolitan areas versus small towns, seem to play more into receptiveness for casual sex beyond a general trait of womanhood. I think you just have to find the person, woman or man, at a point where simply fucking someone is attractive... for me that's during ovulation or after a relationship ends.

the whole discrepancy is that women CHOOSE who they want to have sex with, not the other way around.

therefore it is an accomplishment to bed agirl who chose you.