Amount of men your girlfriends been with

Saying something with definitive figures isn't an opinion. He should have said, "I think that..." before his entire post. He offered up a formula (lol@that btw) on how women should be judged.

GTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF.

I'm sorry, but what difference does it make? How would guys feel if they were given a negative rating according to the number of people they'd had sex with? I think it's a bit rich for guys who'll screw anything with a hole that will stay still long enough to expect women to be virgins on their wedding night. Talk about double standards.

Another point for guys who're involved with a more experienced woman and feel inadequate or jealous, at the end of the day, she's gone out, had some experience, and, based on that experience, has chosen you. You've got to be better than all the other guys she's had or she's have moved on long ago, so stop using her past as an excuse to have a got at her. Take it as a compliment that you meet her standards.

My girl is 30 and been with 12 guys, including myself. I was pretty relieved to hear this, given recent trends in that department. My ex was 23 and had been with over double that amount.

I sometimes wonder if it is the competition men are afraid of...

Anyway - that might be a topic of discussion for another thread- what I wanted to say in this thread is that a guy (or even a girl) giving a fuck about about the number of partners a woman has had plays a lot on the mistaken idea that a lot of men (and some women, mysteriously enough) have that if a woman will fuck one guy she will fuck every guy.

This is simply not true. No more than it is true that all straight man will fuck any woman that offers, no more than it is true that all gay man will fuck any man that offers. Funnily enough lesbians seem to be off the hook on this one.

Perhaps the men who worry about this, the men who really do believe that if a woman has fucked pretty much anyone else she will be 'an open kneed slut' for everyone, maybe THOSE guys are the real sluts because they would fuck anyone who offers - and they are mistakenly applying their own morals to others.

IMO ... the number of partners your girlfriend/boyfriend/fiance/partner/spouse has had ... is a complete and total distraction from the reality of the person in front of you.

My wife was with 8 guys before we got married, a few more if you count in oral sex but not vaginal sex. I have had girls with much more and much less, and I think she is a bit low, but not much. Thing is, the past sexual experiences and partners a girl has had made them the girl that I like at that time, so it seems really silly to hold that against them. I like to know, just out of curiosity and to know whether something we do in the sack will be familiar or brand new, but thats about it.

Thanks Everyone. The fact of the matter is, I was a little hurt that she lied to me to begin with but see why she would and appreciate that she told me the truth. I love this girl with all my heart and don't really care. She told me that I was the best she had out of all the guys and this was before she told me the actual number so I'll take that as the silver lining so to speak.
Thanks agian

Its basic instinct to not want a slut. Logic will tell you, that a girl can sleep with a 100 guys but if shes safe about it it does not matter.

Logic will also tell you that the rich nerd who is ugly as hell would give you a better life, that does not mean you are going to go marry that person.

We are not animals of logic when it comes to sex. When it comes to sex its basic instinct, and you cant say people date logically. A man with little confidence, no matter how great a man he is, wont get girls. Logic tells you he is great, but instinct tells you he is crap.

Well, my girlfriend has been with 4 other guys before she ended up with me. Which is a number that I can live with lol.

Does the original question refer to men at the same time?

or the the men who I am going to lick out of her?

lets ask you a few questions.. were all your gf's married? I guess they werent because it would then be cheating?
There is more life other than going to clubs.. many girls marry.. and that is the point you are missing.

Lets take for ex. Australian womne.. ( first one I found) Average Aussie woman has 13 different sex partners in lifetime

they have an average of 13 partners in their entire lifetime. There is always a few perfect of women who have 1 or 2 partners or not at all. Now, the other perfects of girl that have multiple partners doesnt have a limit... It can be 50 , 500 or even 10000 guys... depending on the women surveyed a few women with lots of relationship will end up helping the average go up... ( please let me know if I am wrong about my concept)
over 50% of women marry before age 22 ... and those that do ( most)are with the guy their are marrying at least a few years for the average,,,,

If you think it through it wont be wrong to think that 3/5 of women will have less than 3 guys in their life.

I've known a lot of women in my life and that number is FAR off from what I've encountered.


that was ur quote. First of all... where did you encounter them? there is a big difference between home girls and club girls. You can tell me whatever you want, it could be a lie or truth....
I am just telling what I believe...

Note that I didn't jugde.
I did not say if she slept with 50 guys she is a slut and if she slept with 0 guys she is a saint...

I just said whats good to me. Again, there can be a virgin and kill someone just like the ex you gave. But we are talking about average not rarities. At least I don't know anyone like that.

Well, lpsg.org is not the real world... here men and women have dirty minds. I do to, nothing wrong with it. But, again when I am on certain groups of people if I talk about any kind of threads here they would look at me as dirty, perv all kind of stuff.

To tell you the truth if a girl ask me how many women I have been with I would lie 1000% because it is not the same telling" only 2" than saying 8 or eight is not the same as 20 either... Do I have a point? Doesn't matter what girl it is, if you tell her "oh, I have been with 350 girls " I mean she would think "wtf? " probably leave you right there... that is why that question is not to be asked unless you want to get hurt or something.

Same for girls, some have even told me they were virgins (NOT) their average probably around 2-4 guys. Do I believe them? I believe in some... :)

There are a lot of hurting people on this site.

I honestly am only bothering to reply to this out of boredom. I'd normally disregard a post of this caliber.

What does marriage have to do with anything? There are swingers, polyamorous, polygamist women, women who engage in threesomes while married, women out there who would throw all your "married" statistics out the window. Sex with new partners doesn't always end at marriage. And all these girls weren't "clubbing hos." I'm talking about normal, educated, sane women you encounter on a daily basis. Fellow college classmates, business women, teenagers even. I think your problem is you think entirely inside the box.

Again, define perfection. If these "perfect of women" you speak of have their perfection defined by how many partners they've had, or better stated, the lack thereof, then your weak logic possibly holds some water. However, I'd much rather take an experienced woman than a "perfect of woman" who has no idea what to expect during sex and has all kinds of hangups. I'm done training newbies, I need someone who can hang with me talent-wise ;)

Again, back to the 3/5ths statement. if the average is 13, you can't possibly deduce that 3/5ths of Australian women will have had 3 partners or less throughout their lifetimes. That's another wild stab in the dark... which just made for another hole in your argument.