I'm not going to quote and parse your words to show you how you berate people with differing views on sex and morality, because I can see that underlying your assurance is the logical doubt of intelligence. I see no reason to try and change the mind or influence the ideas of someone around here. Perhaps the lessons I've picked up along the way have no relevance to your life.

You state in so many different ways that you are strongly committed to the idea that sexual intimacy without emotional intimacy is impossible. I am certain that, for you, it is, and that attempting to understand sex in any other guise is troubling.

I urge you to retain your notions of romantic love, even after your heart's been broken time and again. Far from being a weakness, it could well turn out to be one of your principle strengths.