leave him, and them, be. they are his pubes. and yes...a lot of women and men think a big bush is hot..trust me..I know from where I speak (see my pics) I have been told it many times. of course some may not like it either. let him cross that bridge when he gets to it. funny..as thick and big as my pubes are, I think I'd like to have his "problem" . must look incredible.