During 69, do you come? Does your partner? What do you do when you are obviously going to climax...do you stop working on your partner for those seconds or do you keep right on going? Sometimes I worry I'm almost too distracted when the pleasure gets that intense...and I wonder if I should just stop for those intense moments and then resume when I'm done & let her finish. Plus, if I ever 69 with a dude, I'd worry I'd hurt him when I orgasm....Suggestions?