This is what many of us men hope for BW. There have been times when making love to a woman that I could only last anywhere from 2 to 5 minutes. The only reason being that the female turned me on so much that I had no control what so ever. There have also been a few times that I was so nervous that it took me 30 to 45 minutes to cum. This of course being the first time or two with a new sex partner. Once I become used to making love to the same female I can last anywhere from 30 minutes on up. My record (if you want to call it that) was 2 1/2 hours but an average is 30 minutes. The way I look at it: after foreplay where the female has had a orgasm from the pleasure of my fingers and tongue and then another one or two during the love making, it is not necessary to go on for hours. My favorite ladies are the ones that roll me over on my back and climb on and are able to have several orgasms in that position. Believe me, I have seen females so tired from that type of orgasm that they didn't have the strength to go on.